Touch Lamps

Friendship Lamp Review: A Wi-Fi Touch Lamp Across Two Time Zones
Long Distance Gifts

Friendship Lamp Review: A Wi-Fi Touch Lamp Across Two Time Zones

Two years, two nightstands, two time zones. An honest look at what a Wi-Fi touch lamp actually does for a couple who live 1,900 miles apart.

Friendship Lamp vs LuvLink: Which Touch Lamp Set Is Worth It?
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Friendship Lamp vs LuvLink: Which Touch Lamp Set Is Worth It?

Two years of daily use on one side, a listing and a friend's kitchen on the other. Here is the honest split.

10 Reasons a Friendship Lamp Works for Long Distance Couples
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10 Reasons a Friendship Lamp Works for Long Distance Couples

A nightstand light will not close two time zones. It can still say 'I am home' when a text feels like one more task. Two years of daily use, including the limits.

The Lamp That Lit Up My Nightstand After Every Night Shift
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The Lamp That Lit Up My Nightstand After Every Night Shift

Two lamps, two nightstands, two time zones, and the two-touch signal that replaced a year of unanswered morning texts.

How to Stay Connected Across Time Zones With a Friendship Lamp
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How to Stay Connected Across Time Zones With a Friendship Lamp

Two years, two nightstands, two time zones. The setup that finally made the distance feel like a smaller number.

Friendship Lamp Honest Review: What I Wish I Knew Before Buying
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Friendship Lamp Honest Review: What I Wish I Knew Before Buying

A two year check in on the Friendship Lamp Classic set, including the Wi-Fi hiccup, the no white light problem and the people who should not buy it.

Touch Bracelets

TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Review: Wearing Them Between Visits
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TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Review: Wearing Them Between Visits

Eighteen months, one dead battery, and a buzz that cannot carry words. What the TOTWOO Sun and Moon set is actually good for, from someone who wears one on twelve-hour shifts.

Touch Bracelets vs Friendship Lamp: Which Long Distance Gift Wins?
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Touch Bracelets vs Friendship Lamp: Which Long Distance Gift Wins?

A wearable signal for the middle of a shift, or a lamp that glows on the nightstand? One long distance couple compares the two gifts they actually use.

10 Reasons Touch Bracelets Help Long Distance Couples
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10 Reasons Touch Bracelets Help Long Distance Couples

Eighteen months of daily wear, one dead battery mid-shift, and the honest case for a bracelet that taps back.

The Buzz on My Wrist in the Middle of a Twelve Hour Shift
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The Buzz on My Wrist in the Middle of a Twelve Hour Shift

Eighteen months of a bracelet that says one thing, from two time zones away, while my phone sits in a locker.

How to Feel Close During Busy Work Shifts With Touch Bracelets
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How to Feel Close During Busy Work Shifts With Touch Bracelets

A working routine for using a pair of touch bracelets across two time zones, from someone who has worn one through three years of twelve-hour shifts.

TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Honest Review: Pros, Cons and Who Should Skip
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TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Honest Review: Pros, Cons and Who Should Skip

Eighteen months of daily wear, one dead battery on a nine-hour shift, and a one-size fit problem worth knowing about before you order.

Conversation Cards

Talking Point Conversation Cards Review: Built for Long Distance
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Talking Point Conversation Cards Review: Built for Long Distance

Fourteen months of Sunday night calls, one box of 200 cards, and an honest look at which prompts land and which ones get skipped.

Talking Point Cards vs We're Not Really Strangers: Which Is Better?
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Talking Point Cards vs We're Not Really Strangers: Which Is Better?

I have used one of these decks every Sunday for fourteen months. I have played the other twice on someone else's couch. Here is the honest split.

10 Reasons Conversation Cards Beat Small Talk on Video Calls
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10 Reasons Conversation Cards Beat Small Talk on Video Calls

A 200-card deck will not close the distance. It can give a Sunday video call a place to start.

The Night We Finally Stopped Talking About Our Schedules
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The Night We Finally Stopped Talking About Our Schedules

Fourteen months ago I put a box of conversation cards next to my laptop and found out what my partner sounded like when the calendar ran out.

How to Plan a Video Call Date Night With Conversation Cards
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How to Plan a Video Call Date Night With Conversation Cards

A Sunday night routine that fits in a small box: pick one night, fix the light, deal three cards, and hang up while it is still good.

Talking Point Conversation Cards Honest Review: Is It Worth Buying?
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Talking Point Conversation Cards Honest Review: Is It Worth Buying?

Fourteen months of Sunday video calls, three or four cards at a time. What the deck does well, where the questions assume you share a kitchen, and the one thing it cannot do.

Love Letters

Letters to My Love Review: A Keepsake Book for Long Distance Couples
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Letters to My Love Review: A Keepsake Book for Long Distance Couples

One year, four finished letters, and an honest look at the twelve-prompt letter book from Chronicle Books.

Letters to My Love vs Open When Envelopes: Which Is Better?
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Letters to My Love vs Open When Envelopes: Which Is Better?

A guided letter book against a DIY open when envelope kit: which one gets finished, which one gets kept, and how to tell which you are actually going to do.

10 Reasons Letters to My Love Beats Another Text Message
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10 Reasons Letters to My Love Beats Another Text Message

Three years of two time zones, several thousand texts, and one small book that finally slowed me down.

The Letter Daniel Kept on His Fridge
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The Letter Daniel Kept on His Fridge

One small book of fill-in letters, one handwriting habit, and the only thing on a Portland refrigerator that isn't a grocery list.

How to Send Letters Between Visits With Letters to My Love
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How to Send Letters Between Visits With Letters to My Love

A year of writing, sealing and mailing letters across two time zones, including the two steps I got wrong first.

Letters to My Love Honest Review: Sweet, Simple and Not for Everyone
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Letters to My Love Honest Review: Sweet, Simple and Not for Everyone

A year with the Chronicle Books fill-in letter book: what the prompts are actually like, why I have only finished a handful of the twelve, and the two kinds of people who should buy something else.

Photo Frames

Aura Carver Picture Frame Review: Photos From a Partner Far Away
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Aura Carver Picture Frame Review: Photos From a Partner Far Away

Eight months of sending photos from a San Antonio apartment to a kitchen counter in Portland, and the two things I would want to know before buying one.

Aura vs Skylight Picture Frame: Which Is Better for Long Distance?
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Aura vs Skylight Picture Frame: Which Is Better for Long Distance?

Eight months of one frame on a kitchen counter in Portland, and an honest look at the frame I did not buy.

10 Reasons an Aura Picture Frame Suits Long Distance Couples
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10 Reasons an Aura Picture Frame Suits Long Distance Couples

Three years, two time zones, and one kitchen counter in Portland. Here is what a Wi-Fi photo frame actually changed, and the three things I would skip.

The Frame That Made Daniel's Apartment Feel Like Ours
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The Frame That Made Daniel's Apartment Feel Like Ours

Eight months ago I put a screen on my partner's kitchen counter in Portland. It is the only thing I have bought for the distance that he does not carry around with him.

How to Share Photos With Your Partner Using an Aura Picture Frame
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How to Share Photos With Your Partner Using an Aura Picture Frame

The frame is not a relationship saver. It is a small daily thing that puts your ordinary Tuesday on your partner's kitchen counter. Here is the setup that worked for us.

Aura Picture Frame Honest Review: Great Screen, Real Trade-Offs
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Aura Picture Frame Honest Review: Great Screen, Real Trade-Offs

Eight months after buying the Aura Carver for my partner in Portland, here is the part the five star reviews skip: the cord, the router, and the fact that someone has to keep feeding it photos.

All Reviews

Friendship Lamp Review: A Wi-Fi Touch Lamp Across Two Time Zones
Long Distance Gifts

Friendship Lamp Review: A Wi-Fi Touch Lamp Across Two Time Zones

Two years, two nightstands, two time zones. An honest look at what a Wi-Fi touch lamp actually does for a couple who live 1,900 miles apart.

Friendship Lamp Honest Review: What I Wish I Knew Before Buying
Long Distance Gifts

Friendship Lamp Honest Review: What I Wish I Knew Before Buying

A two year check in on the Friendship Lamp Classic set, including the Wi-Fi hiccup, the no white light problem and the people who should not buy it.

TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Review: Wearing Them Between Visits
Long Distance Gifts

TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Review: Wearing Them Between Visits

Eighteen months, one dead battery, and a buzz that cannot carry words. What the TOTWOO Sun and Moon set is actually good for, from someone who wears one on twelve-hour shifts.

TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Honest Review: Pros, Cons and Who Should Skip
Long Distance Gifts

TOTWOO Touch Bracelets Honest Review: Pros, Cons and Who Should Skip

Eighteen months of daily wear, one dead battery on a nine-hour shift, and a one-size fit problem worth knowing about before you order.

Talking Point Conversation Cards Review: Built for Long Distance
Long Distance Gifts

Talking Point Conversation Cards Review: Built for Long Distance

Fourteen months of Sunday night calls, one box of 200 cards, and an honest look at which prompts land and which ones get skipped.

Talking Point Conversation Cards Honest Review: Is It Worth Buying?
Long Distance Relationship Gifts

Talking Point Conversation Cards Honest Review: Is It Worth Buying?

Fourteen months of Sunday video calls, three or four cards at a time. What the deck does well, where the questions assume you share a kitchen, and the one thing it cannot do.

Letters to My Love Review: A Keepsake Book for Long Distance Couples
Long Distance Gifts

Letters to My Love Review: A Keepsake Book for Long Distance Couples

One year, four finished letters, and an honest look at the twelve-prompt letter book from Chronicle Books.

Letters to My Love Honest Review: Sweet, Simple and Not for Everyone
Long Distance Gifts

Letters to My Love Honest Review: Sweet, Simple and Not for Everyone

A year with the Chronicle Books fill-in letter book: what the prompts are actually like, why I have only finished a handful of the twelve, and the two kinds of people who should buy something else.

Aura Carver Picture Frame Review: Photos From a Partner Far Away
Long Distance Gifts

Aura Carver Picture Frame Review: Photos From a Partner Far Away

Eight months of sending photos from a San Antonio apartment to a kitchen counter in Portland, and the two things I would want to know before buying one.

Aura Picture Frame Honest Review: Great Screen, Real Trade-Offs
Long Distance Gifts

Aura Picture Frame Honest Review: Great Screen, Real Trade-Offs

Eight months after buying the Aura Carver for my partner in Portland, here is the part the five star reviews skip: the cord, the router, and the fact that someone has to keep feeding it photos.